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Frequently Asked Questions by LGBTQ Students
1. Why Cuernavaca
Mexico?
2. Why choose a program by the Center for Global
Education in Mexico?
3. Are CGE Mexico semester programs generally a “safe
space” for queer students?
4. Are the staff queer-friendly?
5. Is queer theory integrated into our academic
programs? If so, how?
6. Will I be the only queer student?
7. If I’m a lesbian, how does
that factor into roommate assignments?
8. Are there lesbian- and gay-friendly homestays
available?
9. Community: What is it like to be openly queer in Cuernavaca?
10. What is the nightlife like in Cuernavaca?
11. What do former students say about the program?
12. What do staff say about the program?
1. Why Cuernavaca, Mexico
Social movements thrive in Cuernavaca, and its
progressive reputation has drawn many Mexican LGBT people to the
city, which is much more open and accepting than some other cities
in the country. There are several gay and lesbian bars and night
clubs, as well as a few organizations dedicated to promoting LGBT
rights. There have already been three Pride marches in Cuernavaca,
and local activists are currently fighting for the passage of a new
domestic partnership law in the state of Morelos.
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“Lots of Mexicans are drawn to
Cuernavaca because it is a progressive city. I have always felt
comfortable as an openly gay man here.”
--Antonio Ortega, Program
Coordinator and Adjunct Professor of History and Women’s Studies |
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"I feel like Cuernavaca has a
really good network of LGBT-friendly places. On the nightlife side
of things, it’s very welcoming. It’s not hidden and it’s not
exclusive."
--Student, University of North Carolina |
2. Why choose a program by the Center for Global
Education in Mexico?
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Our programs offer LGBTQ homestays
and internship opportunities for students who would like
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“I requested a homestay with a
queer family. Not only was I granted my request; my host mothers'
home was a hub of lesbian life in Cuernavaca. On a daily basis,
lesbians came in and out of the home for visits, meals, and dancing,
and I was always included in the action and invited to bring my
friends.”
--Student, Connecticut College
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While the numbers vary from semester to semester, often
25-30% of the students identify as LGBTQ.
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“Not only is it a safe space, but
it’s a fun space. It’s a space to connect with other politically
active, conscientious LGBTQ people.”
–Student, Winona State
University |
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Several members of our faculty and staff identify as
LGBTQ,
and the rest are LGBTQ-friendly.
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Although the academic backgrounds of our faculty and staff
vary, most try to incorporate queer theory into courses.
Antonio Ortega, Program Coordinator and Adjunct
Professor in History and Women’s Studies, wrote his Masters
thesis in History on gay history in Mexico, entitled “First Visibilities of Homosexuality in Mexico.”
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The program prioritizes the voices of people who have been marginalized
in academia and in the society at large, including LGBT guest
speakers from diverse backgrounds with regard to race,
ethnicity, class, religion, and geographical location on a wide
variety of topics. Students also have the opportunity to meet
with Mexican LGBT activists who have been at the forefront of
the struggle for queer rights since the 1970s. |
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Guest speakers
often include:
- Patria Jiménez, the first openly lesbian member of
Congress and founder of the Closet de Sor Juana, a
grassroots lesbian organization;
- Discussions with working-class and indigenous LGBTQ
people about life in their communities;
- The first gay couple to get legally married in
Mexico City;
- Mexican pastors of the Metropolitian Community
Church and other religious leaders, including Catholic
lay people and priests and nuns who promote
queer-friendly theology;
- Representatives of CD-4 and other HIV/AIDS
organizations;
- LGBTQ academics, artists, psychologists, union
organizers, community leaders, and others.
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“As we study Mexican history, I try
to help students uncover the voices that have often been excluded
from the official history but have existed from pre-Columbian times
through the Conquest and Inquisition, the Colonial period,
Porfiriato, Mexican Revolution, and contemporary history, in which
exciting things are happening.”
--Antonio Ortega, Program
Coordinator and Adjunct Professor of History and Women’s Studies |
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“We had classes in history and
environmental issues and religion that incorporated gay, lesbian,
bisexual and transgendered speakers… CGE Mexico fosters an
environment where sexuality is taken out of the background and
brought into the foreground. Sexual diversity is recognized as an
issue here. It's taken into account and incorporated into
everything. LGBT perspectives are included in the classes in many
ways. I love the fact that the program recognizes that LGBT issues
are related to all aspects of life and not segregated or just
relegated to personal life.”
--Student, University of North Carolina |
3. Are Center for Global
Education semester programs in Mexico
generally a “safe space”
for queer students?
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“Yes, this program is definitely a
safe space for LGBTQ students. My participation in this program was
very important for me, not only in my academic development, but in
my personal development. Because the program and the staff were so
queer-friendly and queer-positive, I left the program feeling more
comfortable with my identity as queer than I felt when I first came
to the program. I am thankful that I was able to have such a
positive, affirming experience studying abroad with CGE.”
–Student, Wesleyan University
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“I
completed an independent study entitled "Queer Mexicans and the
Catholic Church." Not only were all program staff supportive of my
work, but their connections with and provision of access to
Cuernavaca's queer community were essential to my project. Through
their resourcefulness, I was able to interview community members
including gay spiritual leaders, a nun, a sculptor of religious art,
and a lesbian community leader, and to develop an ongoing
connection with a religious community of gay men. These
connections allowed for a remarkable breath to my project.”
--Student, Connecticut College
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“Not
only is it a safe space, but it’s a fun space. It’s a space to
connect with other politically active, conscientious LGBTQ people. I
wasn’t out to anyone, not even myself, when I started the program.
In my high school and even in my college, there was not a strong
LGBTQ community. Being in Mexico was the first time that I really
got to know people who didn’t identify as straight. Because of the
type of education and the inclusive environment that was provided, I
was able to slowly find my own sexuality, and by the end of the
semester I was able to acknowledge to myself and others that I am a
queer woman.”
–Student, Winona Sate
University
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“Since I
received the program manual while I was back in the States I felt
that CGE was making an effort to create safe spaces for various
marginalized groups. During the first couple weeks when we were
focusing on the 'isms - classism, racism, heterosexism, sexism, etc,
I recognized and felt that this program works to bring different
kinds of people into this dialogue and challenge prejudices so that
it's not just token queers or token feminists or token minorities in
the program or lines in a brochure about how open CGE is, but a
sincere practice, sincere methodology of the program to work and
maintain discussion and through that discussion a safe space for
queer students.
–Student, University of Nebraska
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4. Are the staff queer-friendly?
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“The staff was very queer-friendly.
When I chose to do an independent study on lesbians and invisibility
in Cuernavaca, the staff was very helpful and supportive of my
project, and put me in contact with different prominent queer
members of the community to interview. The library at CEMAL also had
extensive resources on queer issues in an international context.”
–Student, Wesleyan University |
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“I felt that openly queer staff and the
relationship students have with the staff creates an
environment where I feel accepted after coming from a very
conservative community and having to struggle and feel
defensive a lot. That has changed at my university in
the States, but still I think that I have a feel for spaces
that are accepting -- and I felt more at ease with my
sexuality and with students who don't identify as queer.”
–Student,
University of Nebraska |
5. Is queer theory integrated into our academic programs?
If so, how?Although the academic backgrounds of our faculty and staff
include History, Political Science, International Relations,
Religion, Women’s Studies, and other fields, most of us try to
incorporate queer theory into our courses. In addition, Antonio
Ortega, Program Coordinator and Adjunct Professor in History and
Women’s Studies, wrote his Masters thesis in History on gay history
in Mexico. His thesis is entitled “First Visibilities of
Homosexuality in Mexico.”
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“As we study Mexican history, I
try to help students uncover the voices that have often been
excluded from the official history but have existed from
pre-Columbian times through the Conquest and Inquisition, the
Colonial period, Porfiriato, Mexican Revolution, and contemporary
history, in which exciting things are happening.”
--Antonio Ortega,
Program Coordinator and Adjunct Professor of History and Women’s
Studies
“Yes.
One aspect of our pedagogy is looking at all issues from multiple
lenses, and one important lens is the lens of sexuality.”
-- Hillary Mealman, Winona Sate University
"I became more aware of the
complexities of the interweavings of class, race, gender, sexuality,
and language group, and of my need to be sensitive to as much of
that as I can."
–Student, University
of Redlands
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“It is important to recognize that
there is no one queer experience or voice. We try to help students
deconstruct preconceived notions that they may have brought with
them from the United States.”
– Lisanne Morgan,
Homestay and Program Coordinator
“We had classes in history and
environmental issues and religion that incorporated gay,
lesbian, bisexual and transgendered speakers… CGE Mexico fosters an
environment where sexuality is taken out of the background and
brought into the foreground. Sexual diversity is recognized as an
issue here. It's taken into account and incorporated into
everything. LGBT perspectives are included in the classes in many
ways. I love the fact that the program recognizes that LGBT issues
are related to all aspects of life and not segregated or just
relegated to personal life.”
--Student, University of North Carolina |
6. Will I be the only queer
student?
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“I was afraid that I might be the
only queer student, but I was happy to find out that there were
several others in the program. Because of the progressive nature of
the program, I think it also attracts very progressive people,
regardless of their LGBTQ status. So even people who did not
identify as "queer" sexually or in terms of gender were all very
supportive and were great allies.”
--Student,
Wesleyan University
“In a new group, it takes some students
time to identify as LGBTQ. However, staff & students work
hard to help develop safe space and build community. As a result,
over the course of the semester the number of students who identify
as LGBTQ increases.”
-- Student, Winona Sate
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“No, and
actually one of my roommates was also queer. I was happy and
surprised to engage with other students who were questioning and
figuring stuff out for themselves, so I feel very fortunate this
semester to have made great friends who identify as queer and others
who are exploring their sexuality and excited to share that, and so
we come together from different places, and I haven't had any
problems with other students nor staff feeling repressed - and I say
that because growing up I didn't have those friendships and felt
silenced and guilty and ashamed of what I was feeling.. I feel that
because the program is open and accepting and creates safe spaces,
that helps students who maybe haven't been able to be open or
question begin to do that here. Yeah, it's been a great semester.”
–Student, University of Nebraska |
7. If I’m a lesbian, how does that
factor into roommate assignments?
“Our number one concern is that
students find safe space. If a student identifies as LBGTQ on their
roommate preference form and/or application essay, staff take that
into consideration to place them with other LGBTQ or LGBTQ-friendly
students. We also take into consideration personality traits, such
as being loud, going to bed early or late, smoking, etc. Students
need to indicate their list of priorities.”
–Former Resident
Assistant in charge of roommate selections
8. Are there lesbian- and gay-friendly homestays available?
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“Yes. All students are asked to
complete a homestay preference form to help us best find safe space
for them. One of the many questions is whether or not students want
to prioritize a “gay or lesbian-friendly homestay.” The reason I use
the phrase “gay or lesbian-friendly” rather than LGBTQ is that few
Mexicans in the Cuernavaca area use or relate to the term “queer” as
it is often defined in the United States. I also omit the “B” and
the “T” because there is not yet a wide acceptance of bisexual or
transgendered identities, although that is changing. Some of the
host families are gay or lesbian, while others are supportive of gay
and lesbian rights. We periodically offer diversity workshops and
are diligent in bringing up issues of taboo subjects with regard to
gender, sexuality, religion, and race and ethnicity with all of our
host families.”
-- Lisanne Morgan, Homestay & Program Coordinator |
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“I requested a homestay with a
queer family. Not only was I granted my request; my host mothers'
home was a hub of lesbian life in Cuernavaca. On a daily basis,
lesbians came in and out of the home for visits, meals, and dancing,
and I was always included in the action and invited to bring my
friends.”
--Student, Connecticut College
“The homestay coordinator is
queer-friendly and I feel like there are all kinds of ways in which
the program works with families to make students feel safe and
comfortable.”
–Student, University of
Nebraska
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9. Community: What is it like to
be openly queer in Cuernavaca?
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“Some people are accepting, and
some people are less so. In general though, through help and support
from CGE, I found ways to make LGBTQ and LGBTQ-friendly friends so
that I could always surround myself with caring, supportive,
open-minded people. Being ‘out’ was never a big issue for me.”
–Student, Wesleyan University |
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“First and foremost, you’re typically
seen as a foreigner here – whether or not you’re holding
hands with a girl or a boy, you’re first seen as an
outsider. People generally think we talk weird, eat
weird, and have strange sexual habits anyway. So being
openly queer isn´t as prominent as
being an outsider.”
–Student, Winona Sate University
“Lots of Mexicans are drawn to
Cuernavaca because it is a progressive city. I have always felt
comfortable as an openly gay man here.”
--Antonio Ortega, Program
Coordinator and Adjunct Professor of History and Women’s Studies |
10. What is the nightlife like in Cuernavaca?
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“Fantastic. The LGBTQ clubs in
Cuernavaca are the most inclusive in terms of race, class, gender, &
sexuality. The Casa del Dictador on Friday nights is a must for
anyone queer in Cuernavaca!”
-- Student, Winona Sate University |
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“There is myriad of of gay and straight
bars and clubs in Cuernavaca. Some girl clubs include: Casa
del Dictador and Club Ra. There are also several ‘neutral’ places,
like La Plazuela.”
–Student, Wesleyan University
"I feel like Cuernavaca has a
really good network of LGBT-friendly places. On the nightlife side
of things, it’s very welcoming. It’s not hidden and it’s not
exclusive."
--Student, University of North Carolina |
11. What do former students say about the program?
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“Studying abroad with CGE was
hands-down, the best experience of my life. My decision to go abroad
to Mexico with CGE was one of the best decisions I have ever made. I
grew a whole lot academically and emotionally during my experience,
and while it was also quite challenging, through this challenge, I
learned that I could depend on myself more than I ever thought I
could.”
–Student, Wesleyan University
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“The
semester I spend with CGE in Mexico opened my eyes to the fact that
coexistence, in a very deep sense, is not only a concept but a lived
reality that we are empowered to create wherever we are.”
--Student, Grinnell College
“I was
already fairly comfortable with a bisexual identity when I went to
Mexico, but I was exposed to a lot more variety of sexual identities
and philosophies around sexual identities on the program.”
--Student,
University of the Redlands |
12. What do staff say about the
program?
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“One thing that I tell students at the
beginning of every semester is that if you’re going to have
a good semester, it’s going to be because YOU made it a good
semester. Students are often surprised at how much they
learn about their own culture. People come down expecting to
learn about Mexico, and what they get is learning a lot
about themselves. Part of this is being honest
with yourself about where you come from and who you are,
including your sexuality.”
–Resident
Assistant from 2005-2007 |
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“We strive to make CGE Mexico an
environment that is open, accepting, and safe for students, staff,
and community members from diverse backgrounds with regards to their
sexuality, gender identities, racial, ethnic, socio-economic,
religions, geographical, and national backgrounds, and ability, etc.
While no program is perfect, our staff is very committed to creating
an atmosphere that is consistent the goal of ‘creating a world in
which many worlds fit.’”
–Ann Lutterman-Aguilar, Director
“This program is unique because
besides being a safe space, it provides insights about LGBT issues
in Mexico that few other programs offer. LGBT issues are
incorporated in a holistic fashion into classes, homestays,
internships, and all other aspects of the program.¨”
--Antonio
Ortega, Program Coordinator and Adjunct Professor of History and
Women’s Studies |
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