Remembering what We’ve Forgotten: On Death, Resurrection, Friendship and the Bearded Baby Jesus

by Jeanette Clark

1557514_10201986427483797_4268978526030678362_nJeanette Clark graduated Augsburg College in 2007 with majors in Youth and Family Ministry and Urban Studies and a Spanish minor.  After college, she participated in the Lutheran Volunteer Corp, working for La Conexion, a resource centers for Latinos, in Minneapolis.  She graduated from Lutheran Seminary in 2011, completing her internship in Chelan, Washington.  Currently, and works as a Mission Developer in the South Dakota Synod of the ELCA with Pueblo de Dios (which primarily serves Spanish speaking individuals and their second generation youth).


“Jesus is dead?” It was Palm Sunday when Jordy, a first grader, yelled this at me. As per Lutheran Church tradition, I was telling the Passion Narrative. My congregation, Pueblo de Dios, is a mission development in Sioux Falls, SD. We primarily minister with Spanish-speaking immigrants and their second-generation youth.

I quickly learned most of our youth had never heard about Jesus. Our first Christmas play, we literally taught the story while acting it out. Soon, the children learned baby Jesus is born on Christmas and we love baby Jesus. After Christmas, the children were confused how Jesus seemingly grows from a baby to being a thirty-year-old man in a couple of weeks. In Jordy’s words, “Pastora, why does the baby Jesus now have a beard?” Never before had the time between Christmas and Lent seemed so short. Soon, we were trying to explain Holy Week to a group of kids who had just learned to love baby Jesus.

Therefore, the chaos of Palm Sunday should not have surprised me. I used Resurrection Eggs and a children’s Bible to tell the story. As I began to explain Good Friday, a girl seemed about to cry. Jordy began yelling, “Jesus is dead?” It wasn’t what most people experience on Palm Sunday. I was so flustered I decided to skip ahead and finish the story. We celebrated Easter and the Resurrection a week early that year. Jordy looked relieved.

Daily at Pueblo de Dios, I use my Youth and Family Ministry major. Over the past three years, our youth program grew tremendously from around ten youth involved in our Wednesday night program, LOGOS, to an anticipated fifty youth this fall. As you probably realize, this ministry is chaotic and difficult. Many of our families struggle with language barriers and poverty; this deeply shapes our ministry.

One thing I most powerfully learned the last few years is the importance of partner congregations. We are blessed by individuals from partner congregations who come to serve us, serve with us and be served by us. Without them, our work would be impossible. Active participation from partner congregations allows me to dive boldly into this ministry’s holy chaos. I pray all those entering ministry will have their hearts and minds opened to the needs of people that our ELCA congregations normally leave out.

The three-year-old daughter of the pastor of our host congregation, Augustana Lutheran, looked at all these Latino kids who were coming to her church for the first time and said to her mom, “Wow! More friends!” Recently, Jordy looked at a Last Supper picture and said, “Is that a picture of Jesus and his family eating?” I said, “Well, it’s a picture of Jesus and his friends eating.” “Wow,” he said, “Jesus sure has a lot of friends.” Sometimes our youth know what we have forgotten.

Lord, open our hearts to the friends you have waiting all around us.

The Myth of Independence & the Grace of Dependence

 by Amber Kalina

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Amber Kalina is a senior Youth and Family Ministry major and Sociology minor from Perham, MN. She keeps busy by working as a student leader in the Campus Ministry Student Organization and as a student worker in both the Religion and Music departments. She hopes to eventually attend seminary or divinity school to be ordained as a chaplain.


 

Deep within each human being, there exists a desire to feel a sense of belonging. We want to find people who understand us or share common goals and interests. This desire leads us to join various groups throughout our lifetimes: sports teams, cohorts, churches, clubs, and organizations. Youth & family ministry leaders often try to create welcoming spaces where people feel they can be united with peers who are also journeying through faith. As our needs or passions change, we move on to different groups—all the while still seeking that sense of belonging.

Although it is natural to crave solidarity with others, not many people will go so far as to say they want to belong so badly they depend on others to fulfill that need. In our individualistic society, people often look down on dependence as if it is only allowed for children, persons with certain disabilities, and drug addicts. We prefer to believe that people should be independent, relying on their own abilities to get things done or solve their problems. You can hear this when some moan about the ‘lazy’ receivers of welfare, in the stigma attached to those who attend counseling, and in the discomfort some adult children feel when having to take care of their aging parents. This message gets passed to our young people, who believe they have to be good at everything – on their own –  to be successful. We want to belong, but we also do not want to have to rely on others.

We want to be independent achievers in our world. However, the notion of independence is actually a myth. We depend so much on what other people do on a daily basis. Most of us do not grow our own food; we rely on farmers to produce enough to feed us as well as themselves. We would not have the technologies we have today without the brilliant contributions of inventors. I would not be at Augsburg right now if generous donors did not contribute scholarships to help students pay for school. Also, if we look at our own abilities, we find that we have limited personal strengths; we are great at only a select few things but mediocre (at best) in most things. Therefore, we necessitate others to fill in our gaps, to contribute where we fall short.

Lutherans are particularly aware of the dependence we have on the works others do on our behalf. We recognize that our deliverance from sin came from the acts of one particular human: Jesus Christ, God incarnate. Martin Luther emphasizes over and over again in his essay The Freedom of a Christian that we cannot by our own power or works achieve salvation. Rather, God steps forward and gives us righteousness in place of sin. The reality of faith itself demonstrates God’s work in our lives as God pulls us toward Godself. May we come to understand that dependence is not negative, but necessary. In our longing to belong, may we realize that we do not belong in communities but to them—to groups of people who need our strengths as much as we need theirs.

Ministry Transitions

by Justin Daleiden (’11)

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Justin Daleiden graduated from Augsburg College’s Youth and Family Ministry Program in 2011. He is from Eden Prairie, MN where he served at Prairie Lutheran Church for five years. He is currently working with Young Adults in Global Mission in Edinburgh, Scotland.

 


 

Many of us know the fragility of working in ministry. The brittleness of working with teenagers, parents, and the staff that surrounds us in the midst of our call. Over the course of the past 5 years, I have been a part of youth ministry in a congregation that consistently went through staff transition. Coworkers came and went for a range of reasons including marriage, kids, seminary internship years, and even the ear piercing “it wasn’t a good fit”.

Transition sucks. Sometimes it’s necessary, sometimes it’s unwarranted, but sometimes it is done extremely well. Yet even in the midst of the best transitions there were people who still felt abandoned and alienated. For me, this is one of the toughest parts of transition. No matter the reason for moving on, we are leaving people who we have grown to love and care for, and there are people who have grown to love and care for us. I guess this is one of the hard-hitting effects of relational ministry done well. It is hard to leave.

With all of this in mind, there are two key things I have learned about making transitions as smooth as possible. First of all, no matter my context, I can start prepping for my best transition right now. The best transitions I’ve seen happened after we took the time to make sure there were adult leaders equipped to support different areas of ministry, parents who felt confident in being the primary minister in their household, and a congregation that has a willingness to lift up youth ministry as a whole. Empowering others for ministry now will insure a smoother transition later. This takes time, and is something that I know I can start working towards immediately.

My second takeaway has to do with the role of the leader. A teenager once told me he was struggling with faith because he saw his former youth leader as “godly” and now this leader was gone. Once his “godly” figure was gone, his faith was goe with it. I don’t think I need to remind any of us that we are not God, but we do need to remember that we should constantly be getting out of the way in order to allow the people we work with to encounter Christ. This ministry I participate in is not my own, but the work of God in this particular place. The more I practice this, the better prepared I (and the people around me) will be when the time of transition comes.

I pray that as you come across transitions, God’s presence might bless each of you and the people you are leaving. Transition is just flat out hard, and I pray that God might support each of you in the midst of one of the hard parts of our work.

Tindog Tacloban

by Jon Bates

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Jon Bates is a fourth year student in Augsburg College’s Youth and Family Ministry program who recently transferred from St. Cloud State. He is from Shoreview, MN and is currently serving as the Congregational Life intern at Lake Nokomis Presbyterian Church in Minneapolis. Jon spent the summer serving in the Philippines. This reflection is about his summer experience.

 


We see courage everywhere in our lives if we look hard enough. When people use their courage… well I think it’s really cool. Whether it’s the courage someone needs to get out of bed, the courage to finish their homework or college, or the courage needed to talk to someone about their own struggles. Continue reading

Believing What Youth Say

 by Ross Murray (’00, ’09)

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Ross Murray is the Director of News at GLAAD and Director of The Naming Project.,  a faith-based youth group serving youth of all sexual and gender identities. He graduated from Augsburg College’s Youth and Family Ministry program in 2000 and earned his MBA from Augsburg College in 2009.

 


In my time working at The Naming Project, I’ve developed a standard practice for myself and for the other counselors I work with:

Believe what the youth tell you about themselves.

It seems like a pretty simple rule, but in reality we don’t do it.

First, about The Naming Project, we are a Christian program for LGBTQ youth. Our main program is a summer camp, so we have an intensive week with youth who are working through their sexual orientation, gender identity, and faith all at the same time. It’s a time of exploration, and they are working through who they are and how they relate to God and the rest of the world. Continue reading

Sarah Grans (’01)

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I graduate in 2001 with a Youth & Family Ministry major and Psychology minor.

What are you doing now (for work)?

I work at St. Peder’s Evangelical Lutheran Church. I’m the Director of Outreach and Faith Formation. I have been on staff there for 5 years as of Aug. 2012. Continue reading

Justin Daleiden (’11)

Justin-DWhat year did you graduate? What were your majors/minors?

I graduated in May 2011 with a major in Youth and Family Ministry and a minor in Sociology.

What are you doing now (for work)?

I am currently the Director of Youth and Family ministry at Prairie Lutheran Church in Eden Prairie, MN. In my job, I have opportunities to teach confirmation, create and write Bible studies, and learn alongside the youth of the congregation. Continue reading

Kirsten Kelly (’00)

kkelly-e1347232328438What year did you graduate? What were your majors/minors?

I graduated in May 2000 with Youth & Family Ministry (Major) and Computer Science (Minor).

What are you doing now (for work)?

I was at Trinity Lutheran Church in Long Lake for 12 years as the Director of Youth & Family Ministries (working with MS, HS and college age youth over the years – most recently I’ve just coordinated the Confirmation ministry).  I will be starting a new position in Children’s Ministry at Zion Lutheran in Buffalo. Continue reading