Crisis, Grief, and Healing. This site has some really good information on male grief, written by a psychotherapist who specializes in working with men and loss (part of his book is on the site). The site is useful for men and women, and has several chat rooms and articles about grief.
How To Survive The Loss Of a Love. The complete text of a terrific book by an MD (Bloomfield) and poet (McWilliams) online. This great book is full of practical pointers on coping, as well as beautiful poetry that will help you know that you are not alone.